Let’s set the scene: You've made a delicious homemade spaghetti bolognese. Your toddler takes one look at it, frowns like you’ve served them a plate of actual worms, and declares, “I don’t like red food anymore.” Yesterday, red food was life. Today, it’s personal betrayal.

Is your child picky? Or are they in the middle of one of life’s great developmental milestones—asserting autonomy?

Let’s dig in (pun intended).