When parents try to avoid tantrums, they often end up with more of them! Toddlers crave control but don’t yet know what’s best for them and giving in only fuels power struggles. Learn why consistent, united parenting is the key to calmer days, fewer meltdowns, and happier families.

Toddlers and spit, a combination no parent ever dreams of, yet almost every parent encounters. Spitting is tricky because it’s 100% under your child’s control, and sometimes the more you say “Don’t do it,” the more they want to do it. In this post, I break down why toddlers spit (hint: power, fun, and your reaction all play a role) and share practical strategies that actually work. Calm responses, redirection, and removing the “audience.” If you’re ready to put the brakes on this messy habit, read on.